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2003-07-17 15:12:27 UTC
Hiya,
I have been divorced now for approx 4 years, since our split (she walked
out on me !), she has had 2 more kids. She is working and gets Working
tax credit, etc... . So this means that her monthly money doesnt come
into the assessment. I have been on cs1 now for approx 2.5 years. I
currently pay her 235.00 a month. This is due to my housing costs being
so high (850.00) per month, council tax is 85.00.
I bring home 1550 a month net.
I have asked her to stop the CSA, she agreed with this and stated if I
gave her 200.00 a month, she would be happy. But she is playing games
and says she will do it, but doesnt ring, etc.
I feel like I'm going mad, cos I want to move on with my life so much, I
have met somebody else and want to get a house together or move in with
her. BUT if I do this, it will mean either no housing costs or a very
big drop. This will mean my csa will rise drastically !!!!! I think to
around 500.00 a month???? BUT would love that confirmed by somebody on
here.
I have phoned the CSA helpline to ask when I will be going over to CS2,
they have said in approx 5 years.
How do I proceed from here, cos I'm already really struggling now, I so
want to start a new life with my new partner, but am not being allowed
the same rights that my ex has now.
She brings in alot more than myself a month for 17 hours work, with all
the benefits, etc....
This cannot be right!!!
The CSA say to see my MP, this wont mean I change from CS1 to CS2, but
may speed up the change over.
If I do move in with my new partner, she is on a good wage, do I have to
tell them about her and if I refuse (which she will !!!) , what will
that mean to the assessment???
Firstly, how much roughly would my assessment be if I moved in with my
new partner on the above salary (she has a child of her own)
secondly, how can this be right!!! NRP's are not allowed to move on with
there lives, she shouldnt have this hold over me. I dont resent paying
for my child at the CS2 rate, cos this does allow a NRP to have a
partner, etc....
PLEASE HELP, I feel so low with this ;-(
Thanks
Gary
I have been divorced now for approx 4 years, since our split (she walked
out on me !), she has had 2 more kids. She is working and gets Working
tax credit, etc... . So this means that her monthly money doesnt come
into the assessment. I have been on cs1 now for approx 2.5 years. I
currently pay her 235.00 a month. This is due to my housing costs being
so high (850.00) per month, council tax is 85.00.
I bring home 1550 a month net.
I have asked her to stop the CSA, she agreed with this and stated if I
gave her 200.00 a month, she would be happy. But she is playing games
and says she will do it, but doesnt ring, etc.
I feel like I'm going mad, cos I want to move on with my life so much, I
have met somebody else and want to get a house together or move in with
her. BUT if I do this, it will mean either no housing costs or a very
big drop. This will mean my csa will rise drastically !!!!! I think to
around 500.00 a month???? BUT would love that confirmed by somebody on
here.
I have phoned the CSA helpline to ask when I will be going over to CS2,
they have said in approx 5 years.
How do I proceed from here, cos I'm already really struggling now, I so
want to start a new life with my new partner, but am not being allowed
the same rights that my ex has now.
She brings in alot more than myself a month for 17 hours work, with all
the benefits, etc....
This cannot be right!!!
The CSA say to see my MP, this wont mean I change from CS1 to CS2, but
may speed up the change over.
If I do move in with my new partner, she is on a good wage, do I have to
tell them about her and if I refuse (which she will !!!) , what will
that mean to the assessment???
Firstly, how much roughly would my assessment be if I moved in with my
new partner on the above salary (she has a child of her own)
secondly, how can this be right!!! NRP's are not allowed to move on with
there lives, she shouldnt have this hold over me. I dont resent paying
for my child at the CS2 rate, cos this does allow a NRP to have a
partner, etc....
PLEASE HELP, I feel so low with this ;-(
Thanks
Gary