You can't judge everybody by your ex.
Just as some dads are true deadbeats some mothers are a disgrace, some spend
all their money on drugs and drink and the kids go about in rags other than
what dad buys them, other are vindictive and use the children as weapons
denying access, should they get any money? There is no one shoe fits all in
child support although CSA would have us believe that under CSA everybody is
the same but that's another pile of crap lies too.
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No, This is the ultimate deadbeat dad senario, the guys an asswipe.
But the sad truth is that this government will do nothing to catch him out
as a fraudster, that's very hard work and even if they do catch him there is
no money it it for them and it costs money to investigate so instead they
chase the real dads that do care and lookout for their kids, they go for the
NRP refused for 8 years to comply with the CSA, he refused to support
his son privately prior to that also, he now is building his own
£500,000.00 house, he is a self employed builder of 25 years, claiming
not to be working so got a nil assesment, he was taken to appeal and
then to commissioner, and was done on deprivation of income, this took
4 years, so he has now signed on , so not only does he cheat his son
but the tax payer, and thats you and I, are paying him £60 a week from
our wages for him to live off while he works cash in hand and build
his palace, his partner earns £3,000 per month, they both live in a 6
bedroom house, your money is helping him to evade his responsibility
to his child and help him build this house, are you happy about
that? , is this a NRP that deserves your respect ?
There are two sides to every coin. When I was paying "the assessment"
very little of it went to my daughter. It appeared to be my ex's private
income. So, now I give my daughter the money she needs (far more than my
ex was giving her), and don't pay anything.
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well i can assure you that this father doesnt give a dam where its
going, he isnt paying because to him £2,000 electric gagrage doors are
more important to him, and besides which where in my post did i say
that the money was mine to be spent on me ?!!!!!
there is one side to this coin, he can pay but wont pay, so why are
you trying to make excuses for him and make out that i deserve no
support as it will go to a shoe fund ??
fathers who do as you do, "im paying the child ", are so annoying,
what about the day to day costs of bringing up a child, or do you
only want the glory of buying the latest toy for you daughter so you
look good and mummy looks bad,
not all mother are as you are trying to make out, i spend a lot on my
son and his father pays nothing, not even a birthday card, so please
your support and excuses are ill placed.